Some, I can't possibly begin to think of who, take bullying lightly. Me ... not a chance. I am writing this as an active citizen to try to impact the community with my argument against bullying and my personal story with bullying. But before I begin, here are some videos on bullying I personally find pretty powerful and I hope you do as well:
These videos made me feel something inside. I felt sad for these people. Although the first was an acted character, I felt for him. And the second one as well because this is her story. I also feel like I can relate to these people because I also have a story and I hope it moves you.
All through school growing up, I was bullied. I was a very small kid and people thought because I was little, they could take advantage of me. I was used, picked on, emotionally scared, few times almost physically bullied. I never did anything to these people. I was called almost every name in the book. Once I even felt that a teacher had something against me. I felt like I was the only one to get in trouble and I had something completely profained said to me and hurt my feelings very greatly. I went home many days crying. I even thought about killing myself aswell, but I knew that would not solve the problem. In middle school, I thought a group of kids were my friends and I found out after, that they didn't care about me. They played me, and only wanted to hurt me. In highschool, I've stayed away from these people and have been okay. Yes, they have picked on me since, but I have brushed it off because I know I am not what they tell me I am. I have forgave them and I definitely will not hold a grudge against these people, but I am still left with the memories. Maybe they bullied me because I am a Christian, I honestly do not know, but one thing I know is they did because they knew they could take advantage of me. Again, I forgive them, but that is my story in a quick summary. So, do I take bullying lighty? No. Definitely not. It is a very serious thing. Bullying has killed many, many kids and teens. Here is a way to think about it okay; bullying someone is in a way killing them because they often don't want to live anymore which leads to suicide. Bullying is stupid, mean, inconsiderate, there are many words to describe it. I have a challenge. It may take a bit of courage, but here it is. From here out, make a pact to yourself that everytime you see someone getting picked on, bullied, whatever, tell someone about it, or if you can without harming yourself, try and stop it because bullying is not a joke, it is a very serious thing. Here is a pictures on the statistics of bullying:
All through school growing up, I was bullied. I was a very small kid and people thought because I was little, they could take advantage of me. I was used, picked on, emotionally scared, few times almost physically bullied. I never did anything to these people. I was called almost every name in the book. Once I even felt that a teacher had something against me. I felt like I was the only one to get in trouble and I had something completely profained said to me and hurt my feelings very greatly. I went home many days crying. I even thought about killing myself aswell, but I knew that would not solve the problem. In middle school, I thought a group of kids were my friends and I found out after, that they didn't care about me. They played me, and only wanted to hurt me. In highschool, I've stayed away from these people and have been okay. Yes, they have picked on me since, but I have brushed it off because I know I am not what they tell me I am. I have forgave them and I definitely will not hold a grudge against these people, but I am still left with the memories. Maybe they bullied me because I am a Christian, I honestly do not know, but one thing I know is they did because they knew they could take advantage of me. Again, I forgive them, but that is my story in a quick summary. So, do I take bullying lighty? No. Definitely not. It is a very serious thing. Bullying has killed many, many kids and teens. Here is a way to think about it okay; bullying someone is in a way killing them because they often don't want to live anymore which leads to suicide. Bullying is stupid, mean, inconsiderate, there are many words to describe it. I have a challenge. It may take a bit of courage, but here it is. From here out, make a pact to yourself that everytime you see someone getting picked on, bullied, whatever, tell someone about it, or if you can without harming yourself, try and stop it because bullying is not a joke, it is a very serious thing. Here is a pictures on the statistics of bullying:
If everyone found a way to stop only ONE incident of bullying, a lot of problems could be stopped. Be an active citizen in your community, stand up and stop bullying. I think bullying is a way to take control and be dominant over someone and usually because something is going wrong in their life. Here is another one for you; although it is hard, try to befriend a bully because they may be hurting and taking it out on someone they know they can take it out on. I don't like bullying at all, and it should, rather, it NEEDS to be stopped. So, I will say it again. Do I take bullying lightly? Absolutely not, and neither should you. Think about it.
For more information on bullying, here are a few websites you may visit:
-http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/Teens/InfoBooth/Bullying.aspx
-http://www.pacerteensagainstbullying.org/#/home
-http://www.stopbullying.gov/
I thank you for taking the time to read this post and I hope you take action and help stop bullying. I also hope you will take up my challenges, not only beacause I told you to or challenged you to do it, well yeah kind of haha, but also because you want to take a stand and stop it! Thanks again and take care.
For more information on bullying, here are a few websites you may visit:
-http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/Teens/InfoBooth/Bullying.aspx
-http://www.pacerteensagainstbullying.org/#/home
-http://www.stopbullying.gov/
I thank you for taking the time to read this post and I hope you take action and help stop bullying. I also hope you will take up my challenges, not only beacause I told you to or challenged you to do it, well yeah kind of haha, but also because you want to take a stand and stop it! Thanks again and take care.